Tuesday, October 19, 2010

ok

okay, so now that i have work to do, at work, i don't really have time to write anything down, except for the 1/2 hour after zoey bedtime or household duties, and my bedtime.  so perhaps the blog will be done.  i keep wanting to start the one about zoey up again, but maybe i'll make it on here so their is no confusion...and so i can write about other things once in a while and not worry about going "against the rules".  these are my rules i'm speaking of...the rules that state, one cannot write of anything other than zoey, on zoey's blog.  it's silly i know.  it's me.

no, this is me.  but look here, zoey got a haircut and looks like a different person!  it will be much more shocking to those of you who don't see her in motion, but instead in this photograph, because without her personality and voice, she's not her anymore!  i'm starting to get used to it.  it's for her, so we don't have to put her hair up  and boy the stress level in the morning has gone down a good notch!


 she was so funny to watch.  she was looking at the tv they had playing cartoons of dancing scissors with hair and eyes and things of that nature.  she was very serious, and of course got totally confused if the haircutter told her to turn her head this way or that.  as if she had no control over her head heehee.




 3 year old attitude


thanks for making this awesome skirt grandma deb!!

she was actually quite happy to do this, although tired.  i just have a gift of catching grumpy looks!


 riding like a pro!


cousins



 this is their idea of sitting next to each other 



 oh yeah


Wednesday, September 15, 2010

so far

so far, this blog has been pretty pathetic.  but here is a really sweet picture of zoey.


 morning musings:

WHEN is dunkin donuts going to get on board and have soy milk dammit!?


























Wednesday, September 8, 2010

relax

i love this video that zoey's preschool's facebook page recommended.  it makes me feel relaxed and happy...


Monday, August 30, 2010

revisiting

was going through some old blog entries and this one nearly killed me with the cuteness.  i'm half dead here people!  seriously, she was so little!  and going on a trick or treat adventure through the library with her friends.  she looks so timid and it breaks my heart thinking of her being nervous, wondering why the hell all the grownups just got up from their various converstations around the room and all started talking at once!  "zoey come over here, it's time to trick or treat!"  "henry, come get your trick or treat bag!"  etc.  did she feel the excitement in a good way, or did she think "what the hell!?  i just want to play with toys, why am i wearing a damn monkey costume!?!"  i probably knew at the time, even thought i was busy trying to make her have a good "real" halloween experience.  humans are so weird.

Friday, August 27, 2010

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

beck Lost Cause

status honk

STATUS
8:30 AM
Anna Benevides is drinking caffeinated coffee

Anna Benevides is wondering where her cell phone battery cover went

Anna Benevides thinks it's funny that we work in cubes (is that so no one sees me picking my nose? cause we can all hear what everyone else says all day long)

Anna Benevides realized, but didn't tell you all, that she cannot post a video on here EVERY day

Anna Benevides likes updating her status



HONK

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

video of the WEEKday from youtube

peanut butter sandwich

last night, eric promised zoey could have a peanut butter sandwich if she ate all her dinner.  she ate all her dinner than had to use the potty.  i think it would be amusing to watch us at dinner when she starts doing the "potty wiggle" and we both practically jump down her throat, "do you have to go potty?" then, either because we expect rebuttal (in the form of a defiant yelling three year old girl which no one wants to mess with!) or we see, by the lack of moving, the reluctance to leave her half-chewed quesadilla, and immediately follow up the question with, "don't worry, your quesadilla will be there after you go potty, really, it will be there, hurry because you don't want to have an accident, just leave it, you can get it when you're done, leave it on your plate, yes, good girl".  ANYway, with all that commotion (which only actually lasted 1 second), and the successful potty session, she forgot about the peanut butter sandwich request.  so we let it go (a reaction we later learned was a GRAVE error!).  about 2 hours later, after no mention of peanut butter sandwich amidst the playing, the convincing to brush teeth, the convincing to go into the bedroom because if we didn't go "right now" there would be no bedtime story, putting on of pajamas, reading of stories (one extra poem) and lots of gripes, zoey and i lay down to go to sleep.  by laying very still for about 10 minutes, she unknowingly convinced me she was quickly headed toward sleep.  then she sat up and said, "we forgot my peanut butter sandwich!" in that voice she uses when she is pretty sure she will be praised for remembering or finding something very important.  major meltdown occurred for about 5 minutes until she finally succeeded after much reassurance she would get the sandwich first thing in the morning for breakfast, when the sun came up and it was morning (specifics are necessary for my sanity).  it still took her a while to fall asleep.  at 3:30am she walked over to my bed and said, "can i have my sandwich now?".